Updated May 16, 2025 by Elisa Branda
Have you ever felt the desire to surround yourself with positive energy, especially after a stressful day? The energy we accumulate every day can really affect our well-being, our mood and even our relationships. In moments when life seems heavier, I have discovered that crystals can offer that extra touch: small colorful allies that help recharge the body and mind.
Crystals and stones are not just beautiful to look at. Each one tells a story, has a “personality”, a vibration all its own. Those who use them often speak of a sensation of lightness, calm, fresh energy, almost as if the stone knew how to listen and restore strength. In this guide I will accompany you in choosing the best crystals to give an extra boost to your daily energy. Take notes, get inspired and discover which stone could become your favorite ally!

How Crystals Work: Scientific and Energy Basis
Anyone who has ever looked at a transparent quartz, with its clear shapes and reflections of light, knows that the temptation to believe in their power is very strong. But what makes these little fragments of Earth really special? Before choosing the right crystal for you or placing it near your bed, I want to explain in a simple and concrete way how crystals really work, both from a scientific and energetic point of view. No illusions, just facts, but with that pinch of magic that we like to feel.
What are energy crystals?
Crystals are minerals with an ordered and regular atomic structure, which repeats in perfect geometric patterns. Just look at them under the microscope (or simply notice the shapes of the stones) to understand that everything is harmony and symmetry. According to those who study them from an energetic point of view, this structure gives them a sort of “vibratory signature”.
What does it mean? Each crystal emits a constant frequency, like a small silent radio. This frequency can vary depending on the type of mineral, the color or the purity of the crystal. Enthusiasts believe that by getting in touch with our energy, these stones can help us restore balance and well-being. It is no coincidence that ancient civilizations used crystals not only for beauty, but also for rituals, protection and healing.
This is why many choose to carry a rose quartz in their pocket or keep an amethyst near their pillow:
- Constant vibrations: The ordered structure keeps the crystal's energy stable.
- Personal resonance: each stone seems to “dialogue” better with certain people or situations.
- Natural harmony: Crystals absorb, store and release energy into the environment.

The Science Behind Crystals: Fact or Fiction?
When we talk about science, things change. There are no studies that demonstrate unequivocally that crystals directly modify our physical or emotional state. Researchers have often tried to understand whether the sensations of well-being linked to crystals have a concrete basis or if everything is just a product of the head.
Some studies have shown that those who use crystals feel a real benefit even if the stone is “fake”. This is the famous “placebo response”: just believing that something is good can generate positive effects on the body and mind. It’s not magic, it’s the power of our mind!
- Psychological aspect: Holding a crystal can help focus your attention on healing or a wish.
- Power of Expectations: If you believe that a stone gives you calm, it is likely that your brain will respond by actually relaxing.
- Lack of direct scientific evidence: Despite this, many people continue to use crystals with positive personal results.
Simply put: science does not completely “reject” crystals, but invites us to take them as a symbolic and personal support, not as a medicine.
The Holistic Approach to Using Crystals
In addition to science, there is the experience of those who practice meditation, yoga, or simply listen to themselves more. The holistic approach to crystals starts from the assumption that everything - thoughts, emotions, body and environment - is connected by an invisible network.
When I meditate and hold a stone in my hands, I feel an effect that goes beyond rationality. This is where the power of intention comes into play: the crystal becomes a kind of ally, a symbol that helps direct energy where it is needed.
Many practices suggest using crystals like this:
- Meditation with crystals: hold the stone in your hands or on your body to feel the desired energy more intensely (relaxation, strength, clarity).
- Daily rituals: carry a crystal in your pocket or bra to remind yourself to “take care” of yourself at all times.
- Energy cleansing: Place crystals in your home, near water or under the moonlight to “discharge” them from accumulated energies.
The important thing is to live it all without supernatural expectations: crystals can really help if we consider them as a concrete reminder to love ourselves more. True energy always starts from within.

The Best Crystals to Increase Positive Energy
Let's discover together a selection of crystals chosen specifically for those seeking more positive energy in everyday life. These stones can be part of your "box of wonders": you can use them at home, during meditation or in moments when you need an extra boost. Some focus on mental well-being, others strengthen self-esteem or even help to shield yourself from heavy influences. Let's see how they work and why you should include them in your routine.
Amethyst: Protection and mental clarity
Amethyst is the stone that I immediately associate with moments of peace and deep reflection. Its purple color immediately recalls the spirituality, but the real secret of this stone lies in the feeling of tranquility it gives. Amethyst creates a sort of “energy cushion” that blocks stress and transforms tension into clearer thoughts.
Here's how it can help you in your daily life:
- Peace of mind: perfect when confusion or commitments weigh you down. Keep a tip of amethyst on your desk to clear your thoughts, or carry it with you when you know the day will be difficult.
- Low Energy Protection: many choose it as a shield for the home, especially in corners where stress accumulates.
- Rest Support: Place it next to your bed to sleep better and relax your mind after a busy day.
Personal advice: at night, keep a small amethyst under your pillow. It is as if it helps bad thoughts to melt away, leaving room for good dreams.
DEPTH: HOW TO USE AMETHYST FOR MEDITATION

Citrine: joy and abundance
Citrine is the friend of productive days, the ray of sunshine on less bright mornings. This stone, with its yellow and gold shades, emanates a charge of cheerful and intense energy. I like to describe it as a source of “pocket” optimism.
What makes citrine so special?
- Vital energy immediately ready: gives a boost of enthusiasm in challenging situations or when energy is lacking.
- Attraction of abundance: Citrine is often associated with prosperity even on a material level. Ideal for those who want to improve their luck or carry out a project.
- Positive thinking: helps to drive away melancholy and insecurities, promoting a brighter vision of things.
When you need to feel stronger and more confident at work, carry a citrine stone in your bag or keep it on your desk. It's like having a little good mood talisman.

Rose Quartz: Love and Inner Harmony
Rose quartz is the stone of gentle feelings and heart-warming gestures. Its delicate color immediately conveys calm and welcome, and is an invitation to open up to oneself and others without fear.
Why use rose quartz?
- Opening of the heart: It helps you to let go, to accept your emotions, especially after a disappointment or a difficult period.
- Promoting positive relationships: It is an excellent support for those who want to improve relationships with family, friends or partners.
- Inner harmony: creates a calm emotional environment, driving away anger and resentment.
My advice? Place a rose quartz near photos of loved ones or on your desk, where you spend most of your time. It's a small gesture that makes the air lighter and the days sweeter.

Black Tourmaline: Defense from Negative Energy
Black tourmaline is like an invisible barrier. It is the stone I always choose when I feel the environment is heavy or I know I will have to meet people charged with "difficult" energy. Its intense color has the gift of absorbing and neutralizing the negative things that surround you.
Here's why black tourmaline should never be missing:
- Personal protection: ideal to keep in your pocket or near your computer, especially in chaotic or stressful environments.
- Energy cleansing: purifies the space and prevents heavy energies from accumulating in the home.
- Focus: It helps to maintain high concentration and keep your feet on the ground even in moments of agitation.
Try keeping a black tourmaline on your desk or near the entrance to your home. It will help you filter tension, letting only clean, positive energy in.
Rock Crystal: Empowerment and Clarity
Rock crystal, or clear quartz, is the “great amplifier”. Transparent, pure and elegant, it can enhance the qualities of other stones and makes the environment lighter and more relaxed. When I feel the need for an extra boost or want to give more strength to a meditation, I always choose it.
Its strengths?
- Mental clarity: helps you see beyond the confusion. Great for those who have to make decisions or want to look at things with new eyes.
- Amplifying Positive Energy: It highlights the properties of other crystals. I often use it in combination with amethyst or rose quartz for even more evident results.
- Balance and purification: promotes general well-being and cleanses the energy of the rooms.
I suggest placing rock crystal where there is more life, such as the living room or work space. It is the perfect stone for those who want to keep their energy high and improve the harmony around them.

How to choose and use crystals in everyday life
Day after day you will notice that among all the habits you carry out to increase your positive energy, the use of crystals will be one of the simplest and most satisfying. Frequent questions like: "How do I understand which crystal is right for me?" or "Where and when should I keep them nearby?" I want to share some practical advice, those that can help you choose and integrate crystals in a natural and authentic way into your routine.
How to choose the right crystal for you: listening and practical criteria
When I enter a crystal shop or scroll through photos online, I always let myself be guided by a combination of instinct and reason. The choice is never random. Each stone seems to call, to tell something, to ask to be noticed.
To choose the crystal that best suits you:
- Listen to your feelings: Often the first stone that catches your eye is the right one at that moment. Following your instinct means letting yourself be guided by the emotions and energy you perceive.
- Think about your current need: Want more calm? Try amethyst. Looking for courage? Choose carnelian. Define your priority and be inspired by the function of the crystal.
- Evaluate the color and shape: The eye also wants its part! The shades of the crystals immediately convey messages: green recalls rebirth, blue tranquility, yellow joy.
- Check the quality and origin: It is better to opt for authentic stones that are not chemically treated. Ask about the place of extraction and provenance.
Usually, I take the crystal in my hands and take a deep breath. If I feel warmth, tingling or just a “pleasantness”, I know I’m on the right track. It’s a personal choice, and should never be forced: the perfect crystal for today may not be the perfect crystal for tomorrow, and that’s the magic.
How to use: Carrying, meditating and placing crystals
Integrating crystals into your daily life is easy, just start with small gestures that quickly become routine. Here are some ways you can use them, each with its own unique touch.
- What to bring with you: Try putting crystals in your pockets, purse, or anywhere near you! Feeling them throughout the day will remind you to stay centered and positive.
- Carry a small black tourmaline if you know you will be dealing with “toxic” environments or people.
- Choose rose quartz to feel more open and kind towards yourself and others.
- In meditation: Hold the crystal in your hand, place it on your chest or forehead, depending on the energy you want to attract. You can also create a small “circle” of stones around you to amplify the feeling of well-being.
- Amethyst to calm down after a busy day.
- Rock crystal to clear the mind when clarity is needed.
- For the home environment: Place crystals in strategic corners of your home. For example, black tourmaline near the entrance to “filter” what comes in, citrine in the living room or study to bring vitality and good luck.
- In the bedroom I often use rose quartz, creating a feeling of peace, while rock crystal finds space where I work or meditate.
If you want to give a boost to your energy, follow these habits: change the arrangement of the stones often, mix different types as needed, combine aromas or candles to create a real ritual tailored to you.
Crystal purification and energy recharging
To keep your crystals effective and “charged”, you will find that energetic cleansing is also important. Stones, just like a sponge, absorb and retain vibrations from the environment. Every now and then they need to be cleansed and recharged to function at their best.
Here are the simplest and most practical methods, perfect even for those who are just starting out:
- Running water: Gently wash the crystal under the tap or in a natural spring (it is best to avoid water on selenite and porous stones). Water dissolves stagnant energies.
- Natural light: Exposing crystals to sunlight (maximum 1-2 hours) or full moon light helps regenerate them. The sun is good for resistant stones, the moon is delicate and universal.
- Sage or Palo Santo smoke: Passing the crystal through the smoke of these purifying herbs removes negative energies and restores vitality. A simple but very powerful gesture.
- Bowl of coarse salt: Soaking the stone in salt overnight is an ancient method that I often use for sturdy crystals. Be careful: never with delicate or porous ones.
But are these physical cleanings really necessary? In reality, what counts, always and in any case, is thetried or your intention!
After cleansing, hold the crystal in your hands, close your eyes, and visualize a beam of light shining through it. This helps to “recharge” the intent, further connecting the stone to your personal energy.
With these little rituals, crystals always remain “alive” and ready to accompany you in your search for positive energy and well-being. What matters is listening to yourself, trusting your sensations, and treating these stones as precious travel companions.

Testimonials and personal experiences with crystals
The energy of crystals cannot be explained only with theory or ancient traditions. Often it is personal experiences, small daily changes and emotions experienced first-hand that really speak. These are the moments in which a stone seems to become a safe harbor or a lighthouse on bad days.
I share with you here the stories of those who have found in crystals a traveling companion towards more positive energy.
These are testimonies that I received via email and which I was given permission to share, obviously anonymously.
Experience with crystals for positive energy
“When I discovered crystals, I was going through a period where I always felt tired and heavy in the air. I needed something small, but powerful. I started with a simple amethyst tip, which I kept on the desk where I worked.
I didn’t expect much, I admit. Instead, after a few weeks, I noticed that I stopped more often to breathe, to look at that deep purple stone. It was as if its presence reminded me to slow down, to let go of tension, even if only for five minutes. Over time, the feeling of having a little ritual all my own became stronger. I woke up in the morning and chose which crystal to take with me, almost as if it were an accessory, but with an added emotional meaning.
Here's how crystals have changed the way I experience energy:
- More presence: I've learned to notice how I really feel throughout the day.
- Simple rites: I often touch the rose quartz that I keep next to my bed. This gesture helps me start the day more gently.
- Resilience: On difficult days, black tourmaline makes me feel protected. It gives me an extra boost to face stressful situations.
- Little Joy: Finding citrine at the bottom of my bag always makes me smile, like a surprise ray of sunshine.
I don't think the magic is just in the stone, but in the meaning I decide to give it every day. For me, choosing a crystal is a gesture of love towards myself, a way to remind myself that I can choose to charge myself with good energy, even on heavy days.”
Stories of those who have transformed their energy with crystals
I have heard many stories of those who discovered crystals a bit for fun, a bit out of curiosity, and then never went back. The experiences are different, but they all speak of change, of newfound strength and small daily revolutions.
Here are some testimonials that struck me the most:
- Martina, 28 years old, teacher: “I always felt like other people's negative energy hit me like sudden waves. A friend gave me a black tourmaline and since I've kept it in my pocket at school, I feel protected. The days flow better and I come home less tired.”
- Giovanni, 41 years old, graphic designer: “When I first started working from home, I had trouble concentrating. One day I took an amethyst and put it next to my computer. I didn’t imagine it would make much of a difference, but my space felt ‘lighter.’ Now, if I forget about it, I can feel the difference!”
- Chiara, 35 years old, mother and manager: “I use rose quartz to help me not lose patience with children, especially when the house fills with chaos. Every time I hold it, I stop for a few seconds. This way I find calm and tenderness again.”
- Leonardo, 24 years old, student: “Citrine is like a lucky charm for me. When I have to take an exam or a presentation, I hold it tightly in my hand. It helps me feel confident and less anxious.”
These stories always make me think that, beyond any explanation, each person finds his or her own way to connect with crystals. Some start almost as a joke, others come to crystals after difficult moments, but all tell of small rituals that over time ignite something inside.
Those who find benefit in crystals often describe:
- A sense of greater self-confidence
- More serenity in relationships with others
- New awareness of one's emotions
- A creative and personal way to deal with stress
In short, each testimony is a small celebration of the change that can arise from a simple gesture. Crystals thus become silent friends, capable of accompanying us even when we don't fully believe it. Their energy merges with ours and reminds us that well-being always starts from what we choose to cultivate, inside and outside of us.
Possible risks, limitations and good practices in the use of crystals
Crystals have become companions in many moments of my day. They often offer that pinch of magic that makes emotions lighter and adds color to the routine. However, even if it is nice to let yourself be carried away by the positive energy of stones, I believe it is essential to speak without veils about the risks, limits and best rules for using them consciously. Only in this way can crystals be a true ally, without illusions and with feet firmly planted on the ground!
What Not to Expect From Crystals: Avoid Unrealistic Expectations
Crystals are fabulous, but they do not promise miracles. You must not fall into the error of thinking that a stone can immediately solve all of life's problems. A crystal, even if chosen with great care, immense It does not replace a doctor or a psychologist, nor does it act against serious illnesses or deep anxiety.
I have learned to see crystals as little “reminders” to remind me to listen to myself and love myself, not as magic wands. When I hear stories of stones that cure illnesses, break negative chains or just attract luck, I immediately understand that there is too much fantasy. This does not mean throwing away the magic, but recognizing the real value they can offer:
- Don't expect them to solve medical difficulties: If you have physical ailments, consult a specialist.
- They can't eliminate negativity in an instant: commitment and small, regular gestures are required.
- Each person reacts differently: it takes patience to understand how, and if, a stone responds to your feelings.
- There are no “miracle” stones: they all help in their own way, but none of them work magic.
Living crystals with the right balance helps us to exploit only the best of these wonders of nature. True strength comes from within, not just from a stone.
When to rely on other methods and turn to professionals
Those who love crystals often put their heart into it, but let's be honest: there are situations where different tools are needed. Crystals can give emotional and motivational support, but in many cases it is important to seek outside help.
Here are some cases where it is good to go beyond the crystals:
- Physical health problems: if you have pain, chronic fatigue or strange symptoms, better not wait. A medical check-up is the safest and most mature choice.
- Addictions and self-management: thinking that a stone can “nullify” an addiction does not work. In these cases, the support of experts and support groups is essential.
Having the courage to ask for help is already a sign of great strength. Crystals can support us, remind us of change, but authentic work starts from human confrontation and the choice to be guided by those who can give us the right support.
Tips for a balanced and conscious approach
Now we come to my favorite part: how to use crystals really well, without stumbling into traps or illusions. Here are some food for thought to not lose touch with reality and leave crystals only the task of inspiring good energies, nothing more.
For a healthy relationship, these are my golden tips:
- Give crystals a supporting role, not a saving one: each of us is the architect of our own serenity. The stone can make you remember an intention or help you concentrate, but the real step is taken by you.
- Respect the limits of nature: each stone resonates in its own way. Not all of them have an immediate effect, nor do you necessarily have to like them. Give the sensations time to mature.
- Mix crystals with other good habits: combine the presence of stones with breathing exercises, moments of meditation, nature walks or creative practices. In this way everything becomes more integrated and powerful.
- Always listen to your body and your emotions: if a crystal doesn't convey anything to you or, worse, it bothers you, put it away without regrets. Follow only what makes you feel truly good.
- Keep an open mind and heart: curiosity is the key. Experiment, change and do not fossilize on a single ritual or type of stone. Positive energy comes from the variety of experiences.
Finally, let me be clear: crystals deserve respect but also lightness. Take them as allies, not as masters of your life. Thus, each new discovery will be an additional space of daily well-being, sincere and full of good energy!

Conclusion
The choice to approach crystals comes from the desire to find well-being and lightness every day. Carrying them with you could make you feel stronger, more serene and more present. You will notice that small changes, if repeated consistently, give concrete results and improve your mood. Then obviously everyone is different.
Experimenting is the secret. Every stone tells something different, but the real power lies in curiosity and openness to new sensations. For this reason I invite the reader to try, to observe what happens over time, and to listen to what the body and heart suggest.
Using crystals responsibly and without expecting miracles means giving yourself an extra opportunity to be kind to yourself. Every gesture can make a difference in the search for more positive energy, at home and among loved ones.
Thank you for sharing this experience with me. Tell your story in the comments or try to include a new stone in your routine. Energy grows when you choose it every day!


